Attention Podcasters – Would you like to talk about Do I Stay Christian?

A friend and colleague just finished reading the manuscript of Do I Stay Christian? He said he couldn't stop reading and called it my "piece de resistance." If you'd like to invite me to talk about the book on your podcast, you can contact John Karle at this email address: john.karle@stmartins.com. John can schedule our conversation and mail you an advanced reader copy. He'll also invite you to participate in a fun zoom gathering with all the podcasters who invite me to join them. That gathering will be on the release date, May 24.

We'll be scheduling podcast interviews April 10-12 and 17 - 19, and May 10-12 and 17-19.

If you'd like to preorder the book, you'll find links here: https://us.macmillan.com/books/9781250262806/doistaychristian

 

 

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If you’re a pastor, ministry leader, or other compassionate human feeling weary, worn out, or on the edge …

I'm honored to be part of this post-Easter retreat -- April 18-21 -- at Montreat in North Carolina.

Discovering Renewal

Some retreats are more like conferences with lots of input. That's good and needed sometimes. But other times, what you need as a quiet place in nature's beauty ... with time to unwind, rest, and simply enjoy being human. I'll be leading one daily session focused on deep renewal, but other than that, you'll have free time with options for some physical activity -- including guided hiking (with Aram Mitchell), yoga (with Mary Caroll Dodd), and fly fishing (with Tanner Pickett).

I hope you'll consider joining us, right after Easter, for Discovering Renewal: https://montreat.org/events/renewal-2022

By the way - what this article describes about Baptists and burnout probably applies to all denominations: https://baptistnews.com/article/leaving-church-part-2-the-great-baptist-resignations-and-covid/

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A Catholic and a Protestant Walk Into a Blog

I think you'll be glad you read this piece co-written with my friend Patrick Carolan. Be sure to notice the dynamic tension between the first and third paragraphs.

https://www.franciscanmedia.org/franciscan-spirit-blog/faithful-democracy-needs-you

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Using We Make the Road by Walking in 2022-2023

You'll find a lot of resources for using We Make the Road by Walking here: https://www.facebook.com/wemaketheroadbywalking/

Here's the schedule if you're preaching/studying from the book each week in 2022 - 2023:

 
Chapter - Date
18. Jan 2, 2022
19. Jan 9
20. Jan 16
21. Jan 23
22. Jan 30
23. Feb 6
24. Feb 13
25. Feb 20
26. Feb 27
27. Mar 6
28. Mar 13
29,. Mar 20
30. Mar 27
31. Apr 3
32. Apr 20 (32, A, B, C)
33. Apr 17 Easter
34. Apr 24
35. May 1
36. May 8
37. May 15
38. May 22
39. May 29
40. Jun 5
41. Jun 12
42. Jun 19
43. Jun 26
44. Jul 3
45. Jul 10
46. Jul 17
47. Jul 24
48. Jul 31
49. Aug 7
50. Aug 14
51. Aug 21
52. Aug 28
 
Chapter: Date
1: Sep 4
2: September 11
3: September 18
4: September 25
5: Oct 2
6: October 9
7: October 16
8: October 23
9: October 30
10: November 6
11: November 13
12: November 20
13: November 27
14: ADVENT BEGINS: Dec 4
15:December 11
16: December 18
17A: December 24
17: December 25
18: Jan 1, 2023
19. Jan 8
etc.
BTW - these chapters sync up with the weeks of daily meditations in Seeking Aliveness: https://www.amazon.com/Seeking-Aliveness-Reflections-Experience-Christian/dp/1478947470

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Q & R: Pastors and Burnout

Here's the Q:

I am writing to thank you, for the book, 'Faith after doubt' ,  for helping me feel less alone and to understand the fear some of my [church members feel] by having me as their new minister.

Also, I am writing to ask do you have any resources / recommendations for ministers / pastors who are experiencing burnout, being overstretched?

Last week I popped into my local independent bookshop... Christmas [gift cards] in hand, I went to pick up books that caught my eye, had been on my wish list. I was not expecting to see your book in this very small shop.
I bought Faith after doubt, ( having read other books by you before and finding them very good and useful), without fully understanding it was really for those currently struggling with doubt. I'm someone who has always doubted the concrete doctrines, and always been 'liberal' in my theology.  Coming to faith as a young adult. I'm now in my twelfth year of ordained ministry ... I moved to a new area ... where I  have been given the extra responsibility of superintendency. One of my new Churches is Conservative Evangelical and the leadership there are not welcoming me in.
In discussion with a colleague this week I see now they are fearful of what I represent, female, liberal, minister. Your book is helping me explore and understand the details of that.
I'm also aware that due to near burn out just before the pandemic hit, my reserves are lower.
[Many] clergy here [in my region] are overstretched, many tired, some like me, exhausted by trying to balance congregations who hold contrary convictions on parts of theology, such as same-sex marriage.
Thank you for writing, sharing a book that is supporting so many , for me at a time when I feel very fragile and when I am  unsure how long I can remain in full time ministry, but which is also supporting me and helping me understand my 'difficult' church.
Here's the R:
Thanks for your question, and your vulnerability. (I removed/changed details to protect privacy.) I'm so glad the book has been helpful. I wanted to share your letter for two reasons. First, I think it will help people understand how hard a go it is for clergy these days ... In the best of times, it isn't an easy job. Add COVID, political division, culture wars, conspiracy theories, etc., and it's a wonder that clergy (like health care workers) are doing as well as they are.
Second, as for resources, you'll find a number of helpful articles on line, like this one from Christian Century and this one from Christianity Today.
If there's a Catholic retreat center or monastery near you, or a licensed spiritual director, I highly recommend finding spiritual direction outside your denominational structure to provide you "disinterested/non-utilitarian" support.
Most of all, I hope you can be a friend to yourself, a subject I talked about on this podcast: https://www.typologypodcast.com/podcast/2020/09/04/episode03-037/brianmclaren
For folks in the US, events like this one in North Carolina right after Easter can be a godsend. Signing up and getting away is a great way of being a friend to yourself ...
And, of course, the traditional practice of taking sabbaticals is one worth recovering ... especially when someone has been serving as long as you have, in demanding situations. Sometimes we need weeks or months, not simply days, to unwind, get off the adrenaline cycle, and reconnect with God, the earth, our curiosity and calling, and the deepest parts of ourselves.
Praying with and for you today ... and all who are feeling the stress of leadership in these crazy times.

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